Here is a Twitter conversation I had yesterday:
Chris Geidner's tweet sort of proves my point. He makes a loathsome accusation that I must be anti-trans simply because I have some issues with the most extreme factions of trans activism. I feel like I should hardly need to say this, but I'm entirely pro-trans and favor them being treated without bigotry or unfairness in nearly every possible way.
But no matter how much you believe in a principle, there are always difficult edge cases. This is just life in an imperfect world. Free speech is not absolute. Neither is gun ownership. Or even abortion, about which I have about the most extreme pro-choice position imaginable.
But if you express even modest doubts about trans rights edge cases you're likely to be accused by trans activists of "erasing" them. Or "literally" doing violence against them. Or being complicit in their murder. For examples of this, you need go no further than the hundreds of replies to my tweet.
For the sake of clarity, here are three trans edge cases that I consider legitimate:
Sports. If you've grown up as a man, it means you've grown up with testosterone coursing through your body. This gives you more strength and stamina than most women, which is why men's and women's sports were segregated in the first place. There would be no women's sports if we did otherwise. The same is true for someone who transitions to female after puberty: no matter what drugs they take, they're almost certainly more muscular than most women. It's difficult to say just where the line should be drawn, but the basic argument about unfairness is pretty obvious.
Minors. Minors are always an edge case, and once again the reasons are pretty obvious: They don't have fully developed brains or fully grown yardsticks of what's urgent and what's transitory. This makes treatment of trans minors a tricky subject, especially in view of the questions that have recently caused many liberal European countries to retreat on gender affirming care for minors. America's red-state cranks have, as usual, gone way overboard in creating new laws forbidding trans medical treatment for minors, but that doesn't mean more moderate questions about the right way to treat minors don't have some reasonable arguments behind them.
Free association. This is tricky, but there are women who want to socialize in certain circumstances with others who grew up as girls. This is because their backgrounds and experiences will be different from those who grew up as boys, and they will sympathize with their reminiscences and complaints differently. This is truly a difficult issue, however, since free association has so often been a mask for simple bigotry.
I've been wary of trans activism for many years, ever since Lynn Conway and Andrea James launched a vicious jihad against James Bailey because he wrote about scientific research they considered harmful to the trans cause. Not necessarily wrong, mind you, but unhelpful. And that meant he must be not just mistaken, but a monster.
This is typical of trans responses to research in their field: praise it if it helps the cause, demonize it if it doesn't. This is hardly uncommon among activists of all stripes, but that doesn't make it any better. If research is clearly wrong or biased, that's one thing. But condemning something just because it causes problems for the approved narrative is quite another.
The cruel and abhorrent attacks on trans people that have skyrocketed over the past few years among right-wingers is enough to make me sympathetic to almost any response. Unfortunately, attacking indiscriminately against even arguably legitimate criticism does nothing except make the wingers look more like the reasonable ones. It's unhelpful.